Here's to Forever

Salt Lake Temple

Dear Eternal Companion,

“Is his or her attitude, language, and conduct what you would like to live with every day?”
                                                                                                                                       - Elder Robert D. Hales.

Yes, I want to be with you every day. Elder Uchtdorf stated, “Exaltation is the goal. Discipleship is the journey.” Upon hearing the word exaltation, the air was forced out of my lungs. It was as if my living room had become the focal point of the entire universe. I panted heavily, with quivering methodical breaths. I have heard this word for years, but suddenly it gemmed perfectly with all my questions. I knew I wanted an exalted marriage, but it suddenly became a reality.

I have lived my life preparing for one, but soon I’ll need to find you. Elder Hales’s voice echoes in my head, “Are your goals compatible? Do you share the same feelings about the commandments, the Savior, the priesthood, the temple, parenting, callings in the Church, and serving others?”

I want us to set goals with each other, with the greatest one being an exalted celestial marriage. I don’t need chocolate, roses, or poems. I want scripture study, prayer, and testimony. I don’t need a wealthy career, a nice car, or new clothes. I need family priority, children, and temple Saturdays. I don’t need TV, hobbies, or a big house. I need long talks, your time, and a Christ-centered home. I want service, not vacations. I want covenants, not promises.

As we date we’ll talk about goals. I’ll show you my list and you’ll pull out yours. Our wants will become our goals, which will become our reality. I’ll be with you in heaven with eternity in our future and I’ll find unspeakable joy in saying, “I love being with you every day, exalted.”